Even as our society becomes more permissive, it’s becoming more intolerant. The religiopolitical landscape is weak with diversiphobia. What I mean is the “behind closed doors” or “not allowed” policy against any state of being that some find offensive, like the military’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy about homosexuality, but also the more pervasive and often subtle racism, classism, censorism and other isms. Even discussion is not allowed as people get louder and more vehement with repetitive statements instead any attempt at rational debate. People try to legislate their opinions into fact (like the constitutional amendments against gay marriage or pushing for prayer in schools).
The reality that diversiphobes are blind to is that diversity is a wonderful and necessary thing, even when you dislike it. If someone disagrees with you and you have a [calm] discussion with them, you can articulate and refine the arguments that support your viewpoint. Of course, there’s a small chance that you may be convinced to change your opinion; maybe that is what they’re really afraid of. But changing your mind occasionally is part of being human.
I find that I learn the most from other perspectives and often it strengthens my own convictions by prompting me to consider more aspects and think it over more thoroughly. I also learn a lot by interacting from people from different cultures or backgrounds who are fundamentally different from myself. It’s not always comfortable, but having been through a few dozen has been mind-opening.
We can learn nothing from sameness.
