Ladies who expect male dates to pay for everything up front (1st date and beyond) should expect that those men will in turn be expecting things. Perhaps sex, perhaps housewifey things, but certainly some level of sublimation. After all, who would pay for something (that is not charity) and not expect to gain something from their purchases?
If women are serious about gaining equality, it means everything. All the boons of being a “helpless” woman fall away, including the financial ones and all of life, including romantic life, must be balanced. Those who expect to get things without paying, get what you’d expect – debt. Have fun cooking, cleaning and primping for your gentle-man, entitled ladies.
Chivalry Seesaw
privilege prickles
benefits mask detriments
pay in other ways