Travelog: Berlin

After a taxing morning, getting up “early” after a late night and travelling by overcrowded train, we were looking forward to some relaxation time.  We arrived in Berlin around 2pm and this taxi driver didn’t know much English either (like in Leipzig), but he knew enough to point out the Berlin wall as we traveled past it to our hotel on the Spree River, a stone’s throw from Checkpoint Charlie in East Berlin.  Irina and I were already excited about this hotel from the pictures we’d seen online and we were not disappointed!

The entrance to our hotel had a really great piece of Berlin Wall art.  Inside, the lobby was quite large, with a pile of electric guitars on one side and the lounge beyond with pink shapes in the air and weird chairs (I didn’t get any pictures of that, but you can see plenty on the nhow berlin website).  The staff were all wearing pink and black (the men with pink ties, the ladies with pink flowers in hair) and quite helpful.  I later discovered they had a video game room and an “office” where I was able to book and print my train tickets to Munich on Friday. When we got into our room, we were similarly impressed: it was quite large, with plenty of room for our bags by the door, a golden couch, chaise lounge, electric piano, room separator/large TV, giant bathroom with large bath area and separate shower room, as well as a full closet and a second half-bathroom(!!!).  The hotel also had a nice gym which we used once and 3 different types of saunas, as well as an art gallery (and nice touches like artistic elevator ceilings, see left-side of this paragraph). Continue reading “Travelog: Berlin”

Travelog: Leipzig

After a poor night’s sleep in Amsterdam, we had a rough time getting up at early to catch our train. I won’t go into all the boring details about the trains, but it was our first time and we had to get on 3 of them, so there was a substantial amount of confusion.  Irina mostly slept and I mostly played video games on my 3DS, when we weren’t being kicked out of our seats or scrambling with our luggage to transfer trains.  We also saw some of the beautiful Netherlands and German country side as we passed through.

After 7+ hours in transit, we finally made it to Leipzig (about 1 hr west of Berlin) a little after 4pm (train station pic).  I’d eaten nothing  but some snack bars all day (I think Irina had a sandwich from the dining car) and I was starting to get cranky.  We got our luggage outside, then realized we were on the wrong side for taxis.  When we found the taxi stand, we were a little surprised that our taxi driver spoke no English (we just showed address). Clearly, this was not Amsterdam.  It was about a 20 minute ride to our hotel, which we later discovered was < 2 miles, so our driver definitely took us for a ride. Anyways, we got in, checked in and got into our absolutely gorgeous room at the Radisson Blu and I was admiring the magnificent view down on the square, when Irina started complaining about the shower, which had glass walls and pouted -I hate this place-.  I had to turn away, breathing fire into the trash bin.  Obviously, we were both a bit run down from all the travelling and adventuring. Continue reading “Travelog: Leipzig”

Travelog: Reykjavik & Amsterdam

It all began with Bjork.  The songs were newer, perhaps from Biophilia, weird and soothing, dissipating my deep-seated tension from all the trip-planning, packing and airport obstacle course. We were on Icelandic Air, en route to Reykjavik for our transfer to Amsterdam.  The attendants (and some passengers) looked typically Icelandic, all blond, round-faced friendliness – I kept having the sense that my Icelandic friend Baldur was just around the corner.

We deplaned and walked through the elegant woodwork of the Reykjavik airport, and Irina derided the tourist ads in the corridors – come visit dreary Iceland, yeah right – but it seemed fantastical to me, the kind of place where Selkies might actually exist.  We kept an eye out for our aerials instructor, Leah, who was rumored to be somewhere in Iceland, but only saw strangers and adorable security personnel in short pants with checkered cuffs.

It was a small surprise that the customs area was empty and everyone breezed through with nary a passport stamp (little did we know), everyone was so cool and friendly there.  I almost didn’t mind being so sleep-deprived and famished.   We boarded the plane to Amsterdam and were delighted to discover we had emergency row seats with tons of extra leg room and no extra fee.  I still didn’t sleep, but the ride went by smoothly, with lots of melodic Icelandic announcements and their much shorter English translations. Continue reading “Travelog: Reykjavik & Amsterdam”

1,000 Paper Cuts

1,000 Paper Cuts, my first book of haikus has been “published” and sent to requesting friends/family.
If you haven’t gotten one, but want it, let me know.

The Radical Case for Queer: Marriage & Military

First of all, it’s important to understand that the fight for legalized homosexual marriage and likewise the fight for allowing openly homosexual soldiers in the military are not radical in nature.  Sure, these fights are liberal, but fundamentally, they are assimilationist, which is basically attempting to join the current system of privileges, rather than changing the system in any significant way.

Gay marriage advocates do not seek to restructure the social or legal benefits of marriage, they only seek to expand those benefits to all monogamous adult couples.   However, even for those radical liberals who may oppose the institution of marriage, there is good reason to support gay marriage advocacy. The institution of marriage is so strongly enshrined and honored in world culture, that having homosexuals in recognized marriages will help to normalize homosexual relationships in a way that nothing else can.  Married same-sex couples will significantly expand the cultural awareness and acceptance of those relationships and the legality of their relationships will help drive more important legal protections (e.g., if same-sex health benefits became legally required due to marriage, then other anti-discrimination laws such as for housing and employment will quickly become universal, as has more-or-less been the case in Massachusetts). Continue reading “The Radical Case for Queer: Marriage & Military”

Military Machine – not lean, but surely mean

The military is a machine, which has produced all kinds of amazing technology (e.g., GPS, internet, drones), but like many large machines, tends to make a mess of people.  I know a lot of people are pro-military, even those who are anti-war, and I understand that our strong military (in the USA) affords us a lot of privileges, but it really is a deeply defective institution, which causes quite a lot of harm.

In terms of leadership and purpose, the military exists to enforce policy and protect state interests, which do not necessarily coincide with interests of the population (either in the military’s home country or in the country being occupied or attacked).  The state leadership cares about status, world politics, economic and materials/energy security (e.g., oil).  Contrary to popular belief, the military does not exist solely to protect a country’s citizen population; although that is “one” purpose, it is seldom the actual purpose it is used for.

In terms of enactment, violence and killing has been consistently pursued as the desired course of action.  While American military-driven Research & Development has been off the charts, creating astounding technologies, it has been focused almost entirely on more efficient killing.  If a fraction of the same resources had been devoted to non-lethal combat (and better armor / protection for our own soldiers), we could be living in a very different world, one where we could win a war without devastating the population and infrastructure of our target country. Continue reading “Military Machine – not lean, but surely mean”

law enforcement, epitome of nobility

There is an interesting cultural disconnect in that law enforcement officers (i.e., police) are lauded as heroes, while politicians are reviled as villains, when in fact they are two sides of the same coin.

Pop culture sells the idea that police exist to protect the people and serve justice, always trying to catch violent thugs and protect the innocent. I’m sure that many, perhaps most, police officers do some of that – I’m sure that’s what attracts so many well-meaning police cadets.  But in fact, police officers are meant to to enforce laws, which are crafted by politicians in service of a great many interests, not always those of the “people”.

Government is, and has always been unbalanced, favoring the vested interests of the elite and powerful.  In ancient times, the elite were those with personal or genetic connections to the rulers – now, they are usually those with the most money and prestige, and sometimes special interests who control large voting blocks.

The “justice” system (including police, lawyers, politicians and judges) does work to protect people, especially rich, mainstream people, but it also persecutes people when enforcing kyriarchist and oppressive laws or more neutral laws but with kyrarchist interpretations. Continue reading “law enforcement, epitome of nobility”

How Anti-Abortion Fervor Unexpectedly Protects Girls

While it might seem that Anti-Abortion extremists disrespect women, since they are trying to control what women do with their their bodies, prioritizing procreative function, their anti-abortion fervor actually protects and promotes girls, in a weird way.

Imagine a society with a strong preference for men, a preference for baby boys, for “sons” – then imagine that same society without the stigma against abortion, where abortion is considered a free choice that anyone (woman or family) can make, for any reason.

You would have a culture where many of these son-preferring folks would exercise their freedom to choose, by selectively aborting female fetuses in favor of bringing male fetuses to term.

You would have India

“…The shortfall in the number of girls under six compared to boys has risen sharply from 4.2 million in 1991 to six million in 2001 and 7.1 million this year.”

You would have China

“In 2005 , they found, births of boys in China exceeded births of girls by more than 1.1 million. There were 120 boys born for every 100 girls. Continue reading “How Anti-Abortion Fervor Unexpectedly Protects Girls”

What She Said

Occupy Valentine’s Day


She’s right on.
 This holiday-as-meme is a slippery charlatan, slathering cheap wax onto “romance”, stepping spike-heeled and careless over those who can’t fit the heteronormative and disposable income model, and driving those who can into a frenzy of stressful shopping for the “necessary” luxuries and planning the “perfect” date.

Wait in line to dine, drink too much wine, desperately be mine.
Or just skip it, that’ll be fine.

Occupy VDay tumblr posts

Epic Fail for Environment: “green” spatula

Somehow, I got it in my head that I needed an environmentally friendly (at least partially recycled) spatula – I didn’t want to buy another cheap plastic utensil when so much old plastic is going to waste. It was much harder to find than I’d thought, I didn’t find any such options at cooking stores, TJ Maxx or Whole Foods. Even online, it was tough – apparently high temperature withstanding and recycled don’t go so well together.

I finally found an option online (Green Street), then I had to find a shop that sold it, which I finally did (online only). Since I was ordering online, I thought I’d best order a bunch at once to save on the shipping environment impact, so I bought a few as gifts (4 spatulas and 2 large spoons). When I got the box, however, it was 20 inches long by 12 inches wide and 5 inches high – WAY bigger than needed (they could’ve fit diagonally in a box less than half as big – the spatulas were only a little longer than 12 inches and the spoons were shorter).

Here’s a pic of the last two utensils with the box:


———————almost 2 feet long ———————-