Aging

I’ve been thinking about aging a lot as I’m fading into the 3rd quarter of my 30s & so many friends/peers are in their 40s. Aging has always been gradual, but suddenly, it is all too noticeable. I got so used to my body as it was, but everything is changing. My general resilience has tanked; my skin, muscles, metabolism are all just a bit off. I’ve been getting more injuries which last longer & small physical inconveniences like headaches and tiredness can no longer be easily “powered through.”My energy, fortitude and tolerance are drastically reduced & it’s all a bit depressing.

I finally get why people have kids. Well, maybe not the primary reason in their conscious minds, but, wow, it a good way to avoid dealing with aging. To be wanted, needed, by a being so new, delightful, all-consuming. To be surrounded by external youthfulness is such a wonderful distraction from an inevitable and immutable self-decline. Continue reading “Aging”

Depression 101

Not too long ago, a friend of mine reluctantly let me know that her teenaged daughter had attempted suicide. She completely could not understand it because, as she said, she’s basically a happy person. I smiled ruefully and told her I could completely understand, especially for a teen.  We had a lunch meeting to talk about it, so I could explain how depression works (and to get more information so as to better understand & offer perspective).

I assume that everyone has their own variation of the big D, but some of the key points I could offer:

  1. Children’s brains aren’t fully developed (some say until about age 25) and they often have weirder, more extreme and less rational reactions to things than adults do.
  2. Teenagers are flooded with hormones which make them even more emotional, awkward, sensitive and unpredictable than younger (or older) children.
  3. Anyone who is unusually sensitive, unusually intelligent or otherwise unusual will be more susceptible to feelings of alienation, isolation and self-critique, which can lead to despair.
  4. Anyone who gains knowledge about pervasive injustice (e.g., animal agriculture) is likely to feel sad and helpless, unless that person can feel like they are able to “do good” in some way (e.g., going vegan, or volunteering for non-profit).
  5. Boredom is the gateway drug.
  6. Physical health is a prerequisite for emotional well-being; some severe deficiencies can “make” someone moody/unhappy/depressed.

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Oughta-Obsolete This

Sometimes I get a bee in my bonnet about archaic technology that should be obsolete, but for no good reason (other than inertia) is not.  My perennial example is Fax Machines – why is anyone still using such a ridiculous & poor quality method of transmitting pictures when quality scanners/printers and email are available?

The recent snowstorm (Juno: Jan 26-27) got me thinking about snow-blowers. Like leaf-blowers, these are amazingly inefficient machines (especially with strong winds).  They can accomplish the intended job faster than manual labor, but with significant wasted energy, contributing unnecessarily to fuel costs, hassle (more refills), pollution and all that entails.

Why don’t we have technology (using the same or less energy) to compress and deposit leaves & snow in blocks?  This would reduce the piles on the side and eliminate the problem of wind blowing the top of the pile right back into the “clean” spot.  It would also make removal much easier.

Prayer to the Deus ex Machina

snow blower don’t blow
create nice ice blocks instead
stack into neat rows

Infophobia

Lately, I’ve been thinking about how some people seem terrified of learning information that might conflict with their worldview, to the extent that they will figuratively stick their hands in their ears yelling, “la-la-la,” rather than hear it.

Information = neutral.

I have trouble understanding this fear. New information could be good (i.e., verifiable or reasonably likely to be true) or bad (i.e., fallacious or unverifiable & extremely unlikely) but it doesn’t hurt me either way.  Some information can be unpleasant or upsetting, but I tend to mull it over, perhaps research it a bit [if it seems unlikely or contradicts my previous understanding], then I either accept it or reject it.

Good ideas can withstand criticism.

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Veg, Vegetarian, Veg*n VS. Vegan

or Why vegans should come out of the “veg” closet and stop claiming parity with vegetarians.

When I was a child, I loved animals and dreamed of becoming vegetarian, though my parents forbade it. I knew that vegetarians were peaceful folks who lived in harmony with animals. Eventually, I was able to realize this dream, at 16 (on my first day of college). I was a typical lacto-ovo-vegetarian (I ate milk, egg and plant products, but no “meat”), thought nothing of animal parts used in non-food materials. Gradually, my childhood dream dissipated as I began to realize that my limited steps did not entirely coincide with a peaceful world.

While shopping one school break, I bought a real pair of blue suede shoes at a thrift store, but my middle sister pointed out that leather, like beef, comes from slaughtered cows (and I sadly returned them). Not long after, I asked a vegan friend in college why she didn’t eat eggs or dairy & she patiently explained her reasons. This got me to thinking, but I wasn’t sure I could make such radical changes; I did some experimenting and ended up going vegan some time later. Yet I still considered myself vegetarian, albeit a “pure” or “100%” vegetarian. I felt myself to be part of the larger family of vegetarians, including all who declined to eat animal flesh. Continue reading “Veg, Vegetarian, Veg*n VS. Vegan”

Vegan Mags: VH&F VS VN

To the best of my knowledge, there are 2 major vegan magazines, available at Whole Foods and some newsstands, Vegan Health & Fitness (VHF) and VegNews (VN); I am going to do a little comparison of the two.

Disclaimers: I used to be a subscriber to VegNews, so I’m basing my knowledge of VegNews on the memory of the many issues I read some years back (so some of the items I mention may have changed); I started reading Vegan Health & Fitness more recently (last year), so the comparison may be a bit unbalanced.  Also, I’m considering only print content, not online content.

Appeal

  • VN has a relatively wide appeal, to many with an interest in vegan, vegetarian or “veg” lifestyle, even those with no interest in health.
    Content spans recipes, food product reviews, nutrition, travel tips, animal news, celebrity news, veg weddings/relationships, humor and occasional social issues, all with a “veg” spin.
    Target audience seems to be primarily white, well-to-do vegetarians and vegans with disposable income (e.g., to travel).
  • VHF has a relatively narrow appeal, to those with an interest in physical fitness [exercise], health and veganism.
    Content is mainly interviews with and articles on health-conscious vegans and fitness professionals, along with some recipes, nutrition info and occasional other tidbits.
    Target audience seems to be health-conscious vegans of all backgrounds, but primarily those in “prime” of life (20s-40s).

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Neutrality (it’s not as neutral as you think)

The concept of neutrality (or moderation) seems to embody a sort of lofty wisdom in our culture, an ability to stay “above” the fighting. However, in reality, maintaining a strict neutrality is more often a sign of severe apathy, unwillingness to engage or fear of confrontation.

I’m not the kind of person who thinks in binary, so I won’t say that every dispute requires that one pick a side, but I will say that in the case of heated debate on an issue or set of issues, the underlying opposing viewpoints are often complex and merit some consideration. Moreover, the two (or more) sides are frequently uneven (i.e., one side often has a much stronger case), so if the neutralists could weigh the issues and involve themselves, they might help solve the issue in the most favorable way.

About 10 years ago, I was living with 2 roommates who were “random” in the sense that we’d met online and interviewed in person.  While they weren’t friends, we were all civil and got along fine, I thought.  Then after about 1 year, there was a conflict. I’d brought up some concerns regarding our landlord and was trying to bolster support for asking the landlord to take care of some things.  After a few rounds of discussion (in person and on email), one of my roommates began cursing me out on the emails and became a complete jerk in person, slamming doors and refusing to talk to me.  I did not respond in kind, rather I tried to re-open dialog calmly, to no avail.  Baffled and upset, I asked the other roommate (who had witnessed this behavior) for help and she said that she didn’t want to get involved, that we were both being “extreme.” Continue reading “Neutrality (it’s not as neutral as you think)”

“Faux” Plant products are better for diet

Generally speaking, plant foods are less “calorie dense” than animal foods and if you’re trying to lose weight, reducing animal products can help.  Recently, I’d tried pointing this out to a friend who is trying to lose weight and they said something along the lines that “seitan” is roughly the same as “steak” (in terms of calories).  This got me wondering about the nutritional comparison of meat substitutes and other vegan “faux” products with the various animal products they’re meant to mimic, so I did a little research:


Seitan vs. Steak

    • Seitan  (3 oz) , Michael’s Savory, uncooked  {source}
      • Calories: 70 (may be more after cooking)
        • Cal. from fat: 0
      • Protein: 10g
      • Fat: 0
        • Saturated fat: 0
      • Cholesterol: 0
    • Sirloin Steak (3 oz), cooked   {source}
      • Calories: 210
        • Cal. from fat: 130
      • Protein: 20g
      • Fat: 14g
        • Saturated fat: 6g
      • Cholesterol: 70mg

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Boston RELIEF

F#$% Boston Strong, we got Boston Relief over here.

1 year (+ a few days) since the original Boston Marathon Bombings and my worst fears of a 9/11-style train wreck of police state + violent revenge fantasy NEVER happened.  Sure, there was an unnecessary and largely pointless media frenzy and plenty of military style vehicles (and more violence) for the chase and capture of the bombers, which was scary at the time (as I described here and here). And I heard there was a huge and intimidating presence for the week leading up to the marathon this year (e.g., helicopter patrols and radiation testing). However, as far as I’m aware…

  • No wars were started in its name.  No lawless prison for un-charged “suspects” either.
  • No innocent strangers were assaulted based on their ethnicity or wardrobe by raging citizens.
  • No “security theater” was implemented (other than perhaps some specifically surrounding the marathon itself, which seems fairly legit to me) – I could still take the subway without being hassled and walk around freely for the intervening year (unlike after 9/11 when merely taking the train could be an ordeal).
  • And 99% of the marathoners finished the marathon this year (of 32K+ runners and 1 million+ spectators).  I was not watching, of course, since I am not a running fan, but jolly good for them.

Stronger is Stranger
(or Chinese finger trap on my ventricle)

stranger is release
wound so tight you can’t unlatch
squeeze in to set free

Online retailers fail at technology

In the 21st century, the information age, retail seems to be highly focused on the internet, which is where sales are shifting to.  And yet, 2 decades into the era of the modern internet (public with graphical interface), most online retailers don’t employ simple technological solutions that would ease the burden of online shopping.   Here are some of my top pet peeves.

  1. Bi-annual credit card updates

    All credit cards expire every 2 years, then they are replaced with another card that has the identical card number and a new expiration date, which is always 2 years in the future (and has new CSV# for security).  This should be very simple for online retailers to track and for users to update. However, many of my online memberships (monthly or quarterly billing) don’t notify me in advance AND nearly all require me to re-enter my full credit card information (some including address).

    Technology solutions: 

    1. Membership type billing already has calendar tracking – update calendar function to let users know one billing cycle in advance of pending expiration
    2. UI can be updated to handle “edit” feature for existing credit card (without needing to reenter card #)
    3. There could be a checkbox for “updated card” which automatically updates the expiry date and only requires CSV#

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